Lady Jin Coaching

Sexual Confidence Coaching in NYC

In person in NYC, Video Session Globally

Somatic Healing for relationship

BEYOND HEALING SYMPOTOMS

Are You Frustrated With Any of The

Challenges In Sexuality?

Performance anxiety
Sexual dysfunction
Past trauma that causes shame or fear on intimacy
Low desire, stamina, libido
Lack of pleasure
Lack of presence and connection in closeness and intimacy

A Bottom-Up Approach To Address The Root

Sexuality and intimacy issues are often heightened signals of accumulated stress, self-sabotaging patterns, or trauma responses. They can undermine self-esteem in both obvious and subtle ways. When something is not working in this territory, there is very little room to hide, avoid, or bypass.


When people focus only on sexual performance or techniques, it often leads to more frustration rather than resolution. True healing requires listening to what the body and nervous system are expressing beneath the surface.


Working With the Body, Not Controlling It


This work is not about controlling the body through the mind, analysis, or strategy, which is often referred to as a "top-down" approach.

Instead, sexual confidence develops when you learn how to work with the body like a good surfer learning how to ride with the wave rather than fighting against it.

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What is the "bottom-up" approach?

Restoring somatic and energetic awareness, and cultivating sexual energy in organic ways! When the mind tries to manage the body, patterns become rigid. When the body receives the right healing, patterns begin to change naturally. The bottom-up approach finally bridges the gap between the mind, body, and energy, and facilitates changes from the inside out.


With the "bottom-up" approach, my clients report owning and communicating their desire and pleasure, rather than being driven by pressure or agenda. They inspire their partners to co-create playful, alive, and exciting intimacy

Outside the bedroom, they also develop clarity around embodied leadership. What once felt conflicting or overwhelming transforms into liberation, play, creativity, and the freedom to be who they are.

During a coaching journey, we first build on the foundation of somatic awareness and nervous system healing, and then focus on different skill sets. The specific content depends on each person's situation and needs. To name a few:

Stage One - The Foundation

  • Overcome performance anxiety, shame, and/or fear
  • Cultivate sexual energy and change dysfunctional issues
  • Uncover desire, boundaries, erotic types, and personas
  • Discover your arousal, turn-ons, and turn-offs

Stage Two - The Skillset

  • Touch: how to give and receive healing, sensual touches
  • The nature of male sexual energy and female arousal
  • Tantric connection and intimacy, full-body or energy orgasms
  • Energy dynamics in intimacy and relationships

Symptom-Based Work Fails

  • Working with symptoms often creates quick relief but unstable change. It can feel an immediate uplift and a sense of achievement, followed by a crash or exhaustion.

  • Move one step forward, but then a half step back. This creates huge swings between hope and frustration.


  • Many approaches make sense intellectually, yet action feels forced or resisted by the body.


  • Symptom-based approaches often make you feel not enough; hence, you hunt for more information, tips, and strategies.

Root-Focused Work Sustains

  • Each step strengthens the next. Progress feels steady, supported, and cumulative. You achieve more with less effort.


  • Root healing expands embodied awareness and intuitive response, and changes patterns.


  • Embody and claim clear boundaries, pleasure, and desires, allowing your mind, body, and nervous system to move at a synchronized pace.

  • Stop chasing a new strategy or fancy tips from a state of not enough

"Jin is an excellent coach. Through both conversation and practice, she helped me identify the root causes of my challenges. She is an incredibly patient and deliberate teacher, an excellent listener, and a great source of knowledge.

Jin has helped me understand myself more deeply and accept myself more fully. Jin is there with you through the struggles and to celebrate your progress and successes. I would recommend her to anyone who wants to transform their relationship with intimacy."

Tobias

"I came to Jin with trauma I’d carried for decades; layers that talk therapy alone couldn’t touch.

Through somatic experiencing, she helped me listen to my body, build safety, and release what felt stuck for years.

Jin’s presence is calm, compassionate, and deeply attuned. I’m sleeping better, less reactive, and kinder to myself. If you’re seeking trauma-informed support that actually creates change, Jin is exceptional."

Nina

"I feel much more powerful in all aspects of my life, not in a macho way but in an effortless way. Now I have many greater ways of attracting and nourishing relationships in my life. "

Chris

"A fundamental breakthrough is recognizing my inner source. To recognize my inner power is an incredible breakthrough. It has an absolutely positive influence on my love life, sex, and relationships."

Sonia

"Jin was so intuitive, compassionate, and gently uncovering what was going on in me. Now my life is exquisite. I feel a sense of power, can make things happen, and have peace and joy."

Priti

"The thing I love the most was her simple and empowering techniques that really helped me love my body and dig into my deep desires. It has been a very healing and liberating experience for me."

Karina

"I came to Jin with a lot of anxiety regarding intimacy, and I found myself avoiding sex. I had no idea how to speak up for my desires and had a lot of self-doubt. After working with Jin, I have gained so much confidence in connecting with my body, pleasure, and desires.


I learned how I participate in sex and stay present, rather than being 'in my head' or overthinking. Jin uses a holistic approach to address our mind, body awareness, pleasure, and erotic energy. I highly recommend her! "

Tanya

"I discovered my blind spots and limiting beliefs while working with Jin. I learned Tantric and Taoism practices to uplift my energy and boost my sex life.

Jin is fantastic at holding a safe and shame-free space. I feel open to expressing my challenges and desires. My favorite part is her holistic approach in combining neuroscience and Tantra.

The practices are customized for my needs and easy to follow. She is very professional and approachable. I highly recommend her."

Mr. Wong

Work With Me

We begin with a complimentary strategy call to understand your situation and goals. Services are available in person or by video. Most clients choose a monthly coaching structure to create sustainable change.


Monthly coaching includes 1:1 sessions, personalized guidance between sessions, and customized somatic practices for real-life integration, helping translate insights into lasting changes in daily life. My 1:1 coaching rate is $300 per hour. A typical session lasts 1.5 to 2 hours.


If we're a good fit to work together, I'll recommend a session length and meeting frequency based on your goals at the end of your strategy call. My coaching structure and between-session support are designed to help you achieve lasting results. Learn more in the Coaching FAQ.

I also offer embodied healthy relationship coaching. I can combine both together when needed. Please mention it on the strategy call.

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