Couples Coaching For Deep Intimacy

Many couples love each other and have overcome many challenges in their relationship but may find that the intimate connection or sexual fulfillment has diminished. If you resonate with this, you may struggle with

  • Different turn-ons between you and your partner

  • Mismatched libidos and intimacy desires

  • Tension and judgment arising from communication about intimacy and sex

  • Low level of emotional intimacy, sex, and erotic connection

Many of us have studied business and professional communication, but lack the awareness and skills to express our intimate needs and erotic desires. When attempting to address these issues, frustration often arises because you struggle to express your needs, making it challenging for your partner to understand your desires, OR although you can talk extensively, it is hard to shift from rational problem-solving to erotic connection.

The issues stem from no specific language to understand and communicate each other's turn-ons and turn-offs and blocked erotic connection.

Additionally, issues such as disconnecting from the body, overwhelming stress, and personal trauma can affect our presence, desire, and libidos.

The intimacy problem is just the tip of the iceberg. The underlying factors involve authentic relating, personal healing, and connecting with our sexuality.

Consequently, it's not surprising that intimacy and sex may fade in relationships over time. Common issues include a libido mismatch, sexless marriage, and misaligned desires.

The good news is that as you start resolving these issues, it targets not just intimacy but has a ripple effect on all aspects of your relationships.

My Couples Coaching Framework

Focus On The Keys

  • Discover Your Needs From Your Body, NOT from your head: deepen your emotional safety, know your pleasure, and meet your erotic self

  • Build A New Bridge: Articulate your needs authentically and foster your curiosity to understand each other's pleasure and arousal

  • Experiment and Play: Create new ways of communication and learn erotic skills to nurture a non-judgmental space and playfulness

Leverage Erotic Blueprint™

The Erotic Blueprint is a modern study and framework to uncover your sex language and your body's pleasure map. It is featured in the Netflix series "Sex, Love & Goop" in over 190 countries in 32 languages. Check out the media coverage below.

As a certified Erotic Blueprint coach, I help couples get deeper connection, intimacy, and satisfaction including but not limited to

  • Uncover your body’s pleasure map, turn-ons, and turn-offs. You discover what is true to you!

  • Confidently give and receive pleasure because you know what you want and how to ask for it.

  • Experience the sexual fulfillment, connection, and healing that touches your body and heart

  • Become your own best lover and get more of the pleasure you want

  • Better understand the sex language and intimate needs of your partner, and co-create deep intimacy

You can find your primary Erotic Blueprint type in the quiz HERE. Over 2 million people have taken the quiz!

Embrace Tantric Sexuality

Tantric sexuality, i.e. neo-tantra, is the Western interpretation of Tantra. Neo-tantra applies ancient Tantric practices to intimate connection. Through these practices, people experience increased energy flow, sensation, and presence, which improves the quality of sex and intimacy.

As a certified Tantra Educator, I wave modern sexuality studies and ancient wisdom together to help people gain freedom and embodiment to communicate and achieve their desires.

Client Testimonials


"I highly recommend Jin! She is a compassionate, insightful and wise sex coach. Pleasure education is so needed, and it's difficult to find a practitioner who is knowledgeable, safe, inspiring and easy to learn from. Jin is all of those!

She is clearly passionate about the topic. Her style is interactive, experiential, and educational, and I came away with several AHAs!! She creates a caring and shame-free, judgment-free space, where it's easy to speak on taboo topics, to have a felt-sense experience, and learn how to let more pleasure into my life and have better relationships."


"I attended Jin's Erotic Blueprint online session. It opened my eyes to learn about the different erotic types and understand there are so much potential to enhance my intimate connections.

What impressed me most are Jin's professionalism, passion and energy. Intimacy is not an easy topics even with loved ones, but Jin has a special gift to engage her audience and makes you feel safe and comfortable to open up. She truly cares and wants to help others overcome their obstacles and acquire the pleasure they deserve. I highly recommend her if you hope to open up possibilities for a more enjoyable love life."

"We began the process with Jin a few months ago, and we’re highly satisfied. I came to Jin with my wife after having real difficulties in recent years in sexual alignment and communication.  The conversations with Jin and the session were eye-opening. We found our sync again, we’re able to speak to each other in a clearer and simpler language, and we understand much more that we have different types of sexual wirings, and that requires adjustments from both sides. 

Since our session, the frequency of our sex encounters jumped. We spent a few hours with Jin in person and there is no replacement for that guidance with mere online calls. She was empathetic, sensible, and considerate, and helped us to open up very quickly to her and each other. Can’t recommend Jin enough!"

Shai and His Partner

Senior Executive

"My partner and I had an immersion with Jin, and the experience was excellent. She tailored the session based on our needs and learning styles. We felt safe exploring intimate topics, learning new touch skills, and opening up to deep listening and authentic relating.

The session was in-depth and diverse. We walked away with memorable experiences and practical techniques for communication, touch, and intimate connection. We are satisfied customers and highly recommend her to any couples who want to build better intimacy."

Tanya & Her Partner


"Jin is a warm, caring and compassionate teacher. It’s clear how much she cares for her work and clients by observing the amount of preparation she puts in and her focus on ensuring everyone is comfortable during the in-person session.

Jin’s intuition ensures each session is unique and customized to where her clients are in their journey. We highly recommend working with Jin not only to learn from her - but to learn more about yourself and your partner’s needs, what is possible that hasn’t been explored before, and create greater intimacy."

Bill and His Partner

Marketing Professional

"My wife surprised me with a couples immersion session with Jin for my birthday. Jin created a safe space for growth and expansion.

She is thorough, knowledgeable, and intuitive! My wife and I highly recommend working with her. Thank you for your gifts!"

Kevin & His Partner

Educator and Speaker

Couples Coaching Offer

The Core Offer - Immersion

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The Immersion is designed as a fast-track experimental learning for busy couples. I will meet with you in person for three hours, one day, or one weekend. I customize the agenda depending on the learning style and your goal(s).

The investment for a 3-hour in-person session in NYC is $800. The full-day and weekend options are available upon inquiry. Please Contact The video session starts at $560 for a 2-hour session.

You will experience erotic practices from Erotic Blueprint™ and Tantric sexuality to experiment with erotic touches, body connection, and effective communication for deep intimacy. This is for you if you face some typical issues such as:

  • You feel disconnected in your sex life and intimacy.

  • You have challenges identifying and expressing what you need and want emotionally and sexually.

  • You don't resonate with the typical sexual personas in the mainstream media but are unsure how to uncover yours.

  • You want to introduce sacred sexuality into their sex and love life to build more erotic connections and ignite your passion.

You will discover new erogenous zones, pleasure sensations, and effective ways to express your desires with each other. You will take away effective intimacy skills and communication ways that can be implemented in daily life. Please send your inquiry to

Other Couples Coaching Services

`Private Coaching And Erotic Blueprint Course Bundle

This is for people who love the Erotic Blueprint framework (media coverage here) and are READY to dive in. This offer provides the best option to have a deep-dive experience, combining the self-study course made by Jaiya with private coaching from a certified coach (me), and participating in an ongoing community with like-minded people (the worldwide Erotic Blueprint students)

Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course is the only official course created by the founder, Jaiya. It is NOT JUST a self-study course, but an online community with facilitated ongoing support. Check out the course details on this official page.

The three-month coaching package includes couple coaching, two Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Courses, and consistent support. Book a complimentary consultation to discuss if the option is the right fit for you.

Deep Intimacy Coaching Package

The six-month coaching package is designed for committed couples who want to rewire their patterns to achieve fulfilling relationships and deep intimacy. This is my most comprehensive service to help each partner with 1:1 sessions and support the couple in 2:1 sessions. You will receive private coaching, couple immersions, and dedicated ongoing support. If you are serious about creating an extraordinary intimacy and relationship, please click below to book a consultation.

Public Workshop

If you are interested in public workshops in NYC, please sign up for the mailing list to be notified and receive discounts.

Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough


(Created by the founder, Jaiya)

The only official course on Erotic Blueprint

5000+ students have enrolled in the course

Exclusive access to the Erotic Freedom Club

Meet like-minded people to community and connection

Exclusive teaching in monthly events

Ongoing Q&A and coaching on skills and pleasure mastery

Media Coverage On Erotic Blueprint

Articles on Somatic Healing and Pleasure Education

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