Erotic Blueprint Coaching

Do you fear you and your partner are incompatible?

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The Sexual Incompatibility Myth

Many couples love each other but can’t feel the intimate connection or sexual fulfillment. They simply think it is incompatibility, which may show up as

  • You want a different frequency than your partner
  • Your libidos and verbal expression for intimacy don’t match
  • One partner wants a lot more varieties in the bedroom than another

What is more frustrating is that you lack the language to articulate what you need to bridge the gap. Your partner feels equally frustrated.

It is not an incompatibility but you haven’t learned a language for sex and pleasure. Many of us have studied business terms and professional communication, but haven’t had a chance to know how we express our pleasure and intimate needs.

As a result, it is not surprising that often intimacy and sex fade away in relationships over time. Issues such as a libido mismatch, disconnection in intimacy, and misaligned desires appear.

What is Erotic Blueprint™?

The Erotic Blueprint is a framework to uncover your sex language and your body’s pleasure map. It is featured in the Netflix series “Sex, Love & Goop” in over 190 countries in 32 languages. Check out the media coverage below.

Erotic Blueprint coaching helps couples get Deeper Connection, Orgasmic Intimacy & Satisfaction. When you dive deep through Erotic Blueprint coaching, you’ll

  • Uncover your body’s pleasure map, turn-ons, and turn-offs. It is not what movies or magazine show, but you discover your ways
  • Confidently give and receive pleasure because you know what you want and how to ask for it.
  • Experience the sexual fulfillment, connection, and healing that touch your body and heart
  • Become your own best lover and get more of the pleasure you want
  • Better understand the sex language and intimate needs of your partner, and co-create deep intimacy

Moreover, I wave the modern Erotic Blueprint and ancient Tantric sexuality together to help people gain freedom and embodiment to communicate and achieve their desires.

Tantric sexuality, i.e. neo-tantra, is the Western interpretation of Tantra. Neo-tantra applies ancient Tantric practices to intimate connection. Through the practices, people experience increased energy flow, sensation, and presence, which improves the quality of sex and intimacy.

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Media Coverage

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Client Testimonials

“We began the process with Jin a few months ago, and we’re highly satisfied. I came to Jin with my wife after having real difficulties in recent years in sexual alignment and communication.  The conversations with Jin and the session were eye-opening. We found our sync again, we’re able to speak to each other in a clearer and simple language, and we understand much more that we have different types of sexual wirings, and that requires adjustments from both sides. 

Since our session, the frequency of our sex encounters jumped. We spent a few hours with Jin in person and there is no replacement for that guidance with mere online calls. She was empathetic, sensible, and considerate, and helped us to open up very quickly to her and to each other. Can’t recommend Jin enough!”


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“My partner and I had an immersion with Jin, and the experience was excellent. She tailored the session based on our needs and learning styles. We felt safe exploring intimate topics, learning new touch skills, and opening up to deep listening and authentic relating.

The session was in-depth and diverse. We walked away with memorable experiences and practical techniques for communication, touch, and intimate connection. We are satisfied customers and highly recommend her to any couples who want to build better intimacy.”



“My wife surprised me with a couples initial coaching session with Jin for my birthday. Jin created a safe space for growth and expansion.

She is thorough, knowledgeable and intuitive. My wife and I highly recommend working with her. Thank you for your gifts!”


Public Educator and Speaker


I highly recommend Jin! She is a compassionate, insightful and wise sex coach. Pleasure education is so needed, and it’s difficult to find a practitioner who is knowledgeable, safe, inspiring and easy to learn from. Jin is all of those!

She is clearly passionate about the topic. Her style is interactive, experiential, and educational, and I came away with several AHA’s!! She creates a caring and shame-free, judgment-free space, where it’s easy to speak on taboo topics, to have a felt-sense experience, and learn how to let more pleasure into my life and have better relationships.”


I attended Jin’s Erotic Blueprint online session. It opened my eyes to learn about the different erotic types and understand there are so much potential to enhance my intimate connections.

What impressed me most are Jin’s professionalism, passion and energy. Intimacy is not an easy topics even with loved ones, but Jin has a special gift to engage her audience and makes you feel safe and comfortable to open up. She truly cares and wants to help others overcome their obstacles and acquire the pleasure they deserve. I highly recommend her if you hope to open up possibilities for a more enjoyable love life.


One-time Immersion

3.5 hours In-person immersion or video for Erotic Blueprint and Tantra

Private Coaching

Private sessions with couple and 1:1 support for each partner, with customized solution

Online Course

Learn and practice at your own pace with monthly group coaching call and Q&A support

One-time Immersion

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The session is 3.5 hours. In-person session venue is in Manhattan. I leverage Erotic Blueprint™ and Tantric sexuality to help couples experiment with erotic touches, body connection, and effective communication for deep intimacy. This is for you if you face some typical issues such as:

  • You love each other but feel disconnected in intimacy and sex.
  • You have challenges identifying and expressing what you need and want emotionally and sexually.
  • You don’t resonate with the typical sexual personas in the mainstream media but are unsure how to uncover yours.
  • You want to introduce sacred sexuality and Tantra into their sex and love life and ignite your passion.

You will discover new erogenous zones, pleasure sensations, and effective ways to express your desires with each other. The session is body-based. You will take away effective intimacy skills and communication ways that can be implemented in daily life. Please send your inquiry to

Private Coaching

Erotic Blueprint Meets Tantric Sexuality

Combining modern Erotic Blueprint and ancient Tantric sexuality to help people gain freedom and skills to communicate and achieve their desires.

Erotic Blueprint presents the five erotic types and examines four pathways that either promote or reduce pleasure. Whether exploring your sexuality as a single or doing it with your partner, this is a comprehensive, practical, and fun journey.

Customized Coaching and Solution

It combines 1:1 coaching with each partner and 2:1 couple session, highly customized for your situation, desires, and learning style.

The delivery can be all online, online and in-person, or a multi-day in-person plus follow-up calls. The goal is to provide the best support for your erotic breakthrough.

Embodied Practices To Connect With Sexual Energy

We cover emotional connection, mindset issues, and erotic skillsets to create lasting changes. The process addresses body, mind, eroticism, and energy.

Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough


The official online course on Erotic Blueprint

5000+ students have enrolled in the course as of early 2022

Exclusive access to Erotic Freedom Club

Meet like-minded people for community and connection

Embodiment teaching and monthly group learning

Ongoing Q&A and coaching on Sex tips and pleasure mastery

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