Erotic Blueprint Coaching

Do you fear you and your partner are incompatible?

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The Sexual Incompatibility Myth

Many couples love each other but can’t feel the intimate connection or sexual fulfillment. They simply think it is incompatibility, which may show up as

  • You want a different frequency than your partner

  • Your libidos and verbal expression for intimacy don’t match

  • One partner wants a lot more varieties in the bedroom than another

What is more frustrating is that you lack the language to articulate what you need to bridge the gap. Your partner feels equally frustrated.

It is not an incompatibility but you haven’t learned a language for sex and pleasure.

Many of us have studied business terms and professional communication, but haven’t had a chance to know how we express our pleasure and intimate needs.

As a result, it is not surprising that often intimacy and sex fade away in relationships over time. Issues such as a libido mismatch, disconnection in intimacy, and misaligned desires appear.

What is Erotic Blueprint™?

The Erotic Blueprint is a framework to uncover your sex language and your body’s pleasure map. It is featured in the Netflix series “Sex, Love & Goop” in over 190 countries in 32 languages. Check out the media coverage below.

Erotic Blueprint coaching helps couples get Deeper Connection, Orgasmic Intimacy & Satisfaction. When you dive deep through Erotic Blueprint coaching, you’ll

  • Uncover your body’s pleasure map, turn-ons, and turn-offs. It is not what movies or magazine show, but you discover your ways

  • Confidently give and receive pleasure because you know what you want and how to ask for it.

  • Experience the sexual fulfillment, connection, and healing that touch your body and heart

  • Become your own best lover and get more of the pleasure you want

  • Better understand the sex language and intimate needs of your partner, and co-create deep intimacy

Moreover, I wave the modern Erotic Blueprint and ancient Tantric sexuality together to help people gain freedom and embodiment to communicate and achieve their desires.

Tantric sexuality, i.e. neotantra, is the Western interpretation of Tantra. Neotantra applies ancient Tantric practices to intimate connection. Through the practices, people experience increased energy flow, sensation, and presence, which improves the quality of sex and intimacy.

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Media Coverage

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In-Person VIP Session

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The 3.5-hour VIP session is customized based on each couple’s situation, desire, and learning style. This is for you if you face some typical issues such as:

  • You love each other but feel disconnected in intimacy and sex.
  • You have challenges identifying and expressing what you need and want emotionally and sexually.
  • You don’t resonate with the typical sexual personas in the mainstream media but are unsure how to uncover yours.
  • You want to introduce sacred sexuality and Tantra into their sex and love life and ignite your passion.

I leverage modern sexuality study, Erotic Blueprint™ and Tantric sexuality to help couples experiment with erotic touches, body connection, and effective communication for deep intimacy.

You will discover new erogenous zones, pleasure sensations, and effective ways to express your desires with each other. The session is body-based. You will take away pragmatic and effective intimacy skills and communication ways that can be implemented in daily life. I curate a sacred space to foster a heart and erotic connection with ease.

The session venue is in Manhattan. The cost is $760. Please send your inquiry to

Client Testimonial

We began the process with Jin a few months ago, and we’re highly satisfied.  I came to Jin with my wife after having real difficulties in recent years in sexual alignment and communication.  

The conversations with Jin and the session were eye-opening.  We found our sync again, we’re able to speak to each other in a clearer and simple language, and we understand much more that we have different types of sexual wirings, and that requires adjustments from both sides. 

Since our session, the frequency of our sex encounters jumped. We spent a few hours with Jin in person and there is no replacement for that guidance with mere online calls.  She was empathetic, sensible, and considerate, and helped us to open up very quickly to her and to each other.  Can’t recommend Jin enough…”

Shai (Senior Executive, NYC)

Private Coaching – Online or In-Person

Erotic Blueprint Meets Tantric Sexuality

Combining modern Erotic Blueprint and ancient Tantric sexuality to help people gain freedom and skills to communicate and achieve their desires.

Erotic Blueprint presents the five erotic types and examines four pathways that either promote or reduce pleasure. Whether exploring your sexuality as a single or doing it with your partner, this is a comprehensive, practical, and fun journey.

Customized Coaching and Solution

It is a 4-6 months period with 1:1 coaching with each partner and 2:1 couple session, highly customized for your situation, desires, and learning style.

The delivery can be all online, online and in-person, or a multi-day in-person plus follow-up calls. The goal is to provide the best support for your erotic breakthrough.

Embodied Practices To Connect With Sexual Energy

We cover emotional connection, mindset issues, and erotic skillsets to create lasting changes. The process addresses body, mind, eroticism, and energy.

Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course

The 8-week signature course is created by the Erotic Blueprint founder, Jaiya and her partner, Ian. It is designed to help you make big breakthroughs in your love and intimate life, whether you are single or have a partner. This is a great choice for self-motivated people who want to learn and practice the tools at their own pace. You can check out the course description here.

Over 5000 people worldwide have joined the course. The journey involves uncovering your pleasure map and erotic type, healing limiting beliefs and learning to express desire and pleasure verbally and through body language. You can benefit from the course if you

  • Lost passion due to sexual incompatibility in a long-term relationship

  • Are excited to explore what else is possible in your sex life and erotic expression

  • Can’t get out of your head to enjoy pleasure

  • Have major communication issues in your sex life

  • Have shame around desire and sexuality

Module 1 Foundations for Sexy Success

Module 2 Core Erotic Blueprints

Module 3 Deliciously Determining Blueprints

Module 4 Frequently Feeding Blueprints

Module 5 Seductively Speaking Blueprints

Module 6 Holistically Healing Blueprints

Module 7 Expertly Expanding Blueprints

Module 8 Hot Sex For A Lifetime


More than 1.4M people globally have discovered their Erotic Blueprint Type by taking the Erotic Blueprint Quiz.


Over 5,000 students have enrolled in the course worldwide for growth and transformation.


800+ minutes of videos in the core modules guide you through the pleasure journey

Benefits Included In The Course

Practice demo

for solo and partner work

Access to additional body-based practice demos for each Erotic Blueprint Type with Jaiya and master trainers to practice at home.

Lifetime Membership

in Erotic Freedom Club™

Enjoy membership to the online Erotic Freedom Club at no extra fee. Connect with like-minded people. One course is for one person’s membership.

Ongoing monthly group

coaching calls

Join monthly group calls from Jaiya’s team on pleasure mastery plus sexy tips for sex education, Q&A, hot-seat coaching, and community support.