
Somatic Intimacy Coaching & Relationship Healing in NYC
NYC In-person Sessions and Video Sessions Globally
LET'S BEGIN HERE
Insight alone doesn't change patterns in love, sex, and relationships.
If any of the patterns above feel familiar, you are not alone!
The challenges you experience in love, sex, and relationships are often the accumulated result of body disconnection, long-term protective strategies, or trauma responses. In other words, these patterns live in your nervous system and body.
Talking, analysis, and new "how-to" strategies rarely address the root of these patterns, where they originate in the body.
Somatic healing works differently. Rather than analyzing from the cognitive mind (a top-down approach), it supports change from the inside out. It works directly with the nervous system and body, where stress patterns, trauma responses, and emotional blocks are held.
As your body begins to create inner safety and regulation, your self-trust, stamina, and confidence naturally grow. Then new communication skills and "how-to" strategies become much easier to apply and sustain.
MY APPROACH
I integrate Somatic Experiencing®, modern sexuality studies, Gestalt-informed coaching, and Tantric energy practices into one practical framework.
YOUR SPECIALIST
My work focuses on healing unhealthy relationship patterns, building embodied confidence in love and intimacy, and cultivating deeper intimacy and more fulfilling relationships.
I help people restore an authentic connection with their body, energy, and sexuality beyond talking or meditation alone.
I came to the U.S. from China as a graduate student. Then, I spent a decade in corporate business and reached the director level. On the outside, I was doing everything "right." On the inside, I didn't feel safe in my body or truly at ease in relationships.
After years of exploring different healing methods, I discovered that embodied change came from integrating the best of both worlds: somatic and nervous system healing grounded in Western science, together with Tantric energy practice and meditation (Eastern wisdom).
This work helped me trust my body, cultivate grounded confidence, and create more alive, nourishing relationships. After thousands of hours of professional training, I support others in achieving their fulfilling state.
I support individuals and couples in English and Mandarin. Many of my clients are business professionals, immigrants, People of Color, and those navigating multicultural relationships.
CLIENT SUCCESS
WORK WITH ME
The 1:1 coaching focuses on rewiring old patterns through nervous system healing. You become secure and grounded, shift unhealthy patterns, and attract thriving connections.
The 1:1 coaching combines somatic healing and sexual energy activation to address intimacy and sexuality issues (either challenges or new desires).
The immersions are for couples who want to overcome relationship challenges through embodied approaches or create deep intimacy. It is private and highly customized.